January 2011 is a big month for me.  Huntley & Co. celebrates its fifth year, mon amour and I mark our 1-year anniversary, and [gulp] I turn the big 4-0!  I’m more excited than anxious about this milestone.  I actually like getting older, believe it or not.  With every year I feel stronger, more in control, more the woman I am meant to be.  But just because I like getting older doesn’t mean I like feeling older.  And it’s tough not to when one’s birthday is in January.  Without a ten-day respite in Bora Bora or a major cosmetic overhaul, it’s pretty difficult to look good this time of…